Friday, June 26, 2015

Balancing Dreams and Reality: Embracing Unexpected Paths in Pursuit of Success

Dreams are an integral part of our lives, but not everyone can fulfill them according to their desires. Individuals have their own dreams and aspirations, and sometimes they are forced to abandon their ambitions due to parental decisions. This factor can significantly disrupt personal interests and opportunities in the workforce within our society.

As an individual, I once dreamt of becoming an engineer. However, after completing my secondary education, I did not meet the requirements for pursuing my dream. Instead, I decided to pursue my field of interest and joined a Polytechnic institute. Unfortunately, this did not work out due to conflicting opinions between my brother and me. He wanted me to become a teacher, and ultimately, I had to comply. This experience taught me that sometimes, you don't need a specific plan; you just need to breathe, trust, let go, and see what happens.

Even after entering the teaching profession, the desire to become an engineer never completely faded from my mind. The thought continued to resurface because I noticed that many of my friends who graduated from polytechnic were earning a better living as engineers. Ultimately, I realized that money does matter to some extent.

As a teacher, it has become necessary for us to continually upgrade our qualifications. It has become challenging to sustain ourselves with just a degree qualification in this profession, as it is quite precarious. Consequently, I applied for the TICA scholarship program in Bhutan and pursued a Master of Science in Physics. I successfully completed the interview in July last year and received the acceptance letter from Mahidol University in Thailand in February this year.

To my surprise, the Master of Science in Physics program had been revised to Master of Science in Materials Science and Engineering. This development greatly inspired me because the course aligned with my aspiration to become an engineer. Since I will be studying in a field related to engineering, I do not regret not being able to fulfill my ambition of becoming an engineer. I will give my best effort and trust in a higher power for the rest.

I would like to express my gratitude to the Royal Government of Bhutan, particularly the Ministry of Education and RCSC, for providing free education and offering this opportunity. Furthermore, I would like to extend my heartfelt appreciation to the Thai government and Mahidol University for considering me for their full scholarship program.

Thursday, June 25, 2015

ROAD TO MY CAREER

  1. Education and Professional Journey:
  2. Dechheling Lower Secondary School: Commenced enrollment at Dechheling Primary School in 1993 at the PP level. 
  3. Progressed to Class I in 1994. Advanced to Class II in 1995. 
  4. Elevated to Class III in 1996. Promoted to Class IV in 1997. 
  5. Uplifted to Class V in 1998. 
  6. Achieved promotion to Class VI in 1999 and undertook the board examination. 
  7. Sarpang Higher Secondary School: Enrolled in Class IX in 2002. 
  8. Successfully completed Class X in 2003 and participated in the BCSE exam. 
  9. Zhemgang Higher Secondary School: Enrolled in Class XI in 2004. 
  10. Attained completion of Class XII in the Science stream (ISCE) in 2005. 
  11. Trashiyangtse Dzongkhag: Took on the role of an Apprentice Teacher at Tsaling CPS in 2006. 
  12. Paro College of Education: Engaged in the pursuit of a Bachelor of Secondary Education degree from 2007 to 2009. 
  13. Wangduephodrang Dzongkhang: Served as an educator at Bajothang Higher Secondary School from 2010 to June 2015. 
  14. Thailand: Undertook a Master of Science (M.Sc) program in Materials Science and Engineering at Mahidol University from July 2015 to July 2017. 
  15. Acknowledges the nearly 24-year journey to reach the current stage of their professional career and personal development. Expresses sincere gratitude to the Royal Government and the courageous Kings of Bhutan for their unwavering support.

Friday, April 24, 2015

Alto Car 2011 model for sale

Offered for sale is an impeccably maintained Alto LX AC with a mere 21000 km on its odometer, set to be available for purchase by the conclusion of June. This automotive gem, a model that rolled off the production line in late May 2011, comes replete with the added advantage of comprehensive insurance, providing you with a sense of security and peace of mind.

The asking price for this remarkable vehicle stands at a competitive 3.85 lakhs, a testament to its exceptional value and the care with which it has been looked after. In evaluating the price, do consider the remarkable condition of the vehicle, the relatively low mileage it has clocked, and the included comprehensive insurance that is poised to safeguard your driving experience.

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Wednesday, February 25, 2015

Home is a place for love and happiness not for violence

“Home is a place for love and happiness not for violence”

I wish to extend my profound respect and admiration for the pivotal role that your office plays in the empowerment of women, not only within Bhutan but also on a broader scale. It is with a heavy heart that I compose this correspondence to draw your esteemed attention to an ongoing and distressing matter involving the persistent abuse suffered by my illiterate sister within our village.

A considerable span of time has passed since my sister's marriage to a local resident, a period marked by a consistent pattern of verbal and physical maltreatment inflicted upon her by her spouse. This situation remains unaltered despite their joint parenthood and the responsibility he bears as a father to their two children. Regrettably, his conduct in this regard has remained negligent and void of the expected care.

For an extended duration, he was absent, employed as a laborer under subcontractors. Instead of fulfilling his obligations towards his family, he chose to disregard them, resulting in profound distress for my sister. Investigations unveiled his proximity to Nganglam, where he initiated a relationship with another woman. Their interactions extended to nocturnal rendezvous within hotels and work sites, culminating in his being caught in flagrante delicto.

The impact of this situation has been gravely detrimental to my sister, exacerbating her emotional suffering. We have endeavored to enlist the support of the Gewog administration, engaging in mediations with the hope of reforming his behavior and fostering familial support, but these endeavors have not yielded any amelioration; his deleterious conduct persists.

He further exacerbated the situation by eluding us through altering his contact information, purposefully evading our attempts at communication. Subsequently, we uncovered his cohabitation with another woman and her children. Despite our numerous attempts to reason with him via telephone and encourage him to rectify his actions, his willingness to listen remained absent.

Upon successfully establishing contact and notifying him of his grandfather's demise, we implored him to return home to fulfill his responsibilities as a grandson. Although he agreed to return, his behavior exhibited no alteration. Instead, he continued to subject his family to threats of violence and even engaged in a deplorable attempt at assaulting my sister, leaving her in a constant state of trepidation and unrest.

Repeated visits to the Gewog administration by my younger brother and myself, aimed at resolving this distressing matter, have regrettably proven futile. After a span of three weeks, he returned home, accompanied by his second wife, further intensifying the turmoil within the household.

In this critical juncture, I humbly beseech the support of your esteemed office, which has consistently stood as a bastion of hope and assistance. The gravity of the current circumstance cannot be overstated, and we find ourselves deeply concerned for the safety and well-being of my sister and her children. The absence of decisive action against this abusive individual raises concerns about the prevalence of gender-based violence within Bhutan.

I earnestly anticipate a response from your office, recognizing that your intervention holds the potential to markedly alter this distressing situation. Your invaluable guidance and assistance are sorely needed, and we entrust in your office's commitment to safeguarding the rights and safety of my sister, along with other vulnerable women facing analogous challenges.

Monday, December 15, 2014

DAY TO BE REMEMBERED

On the present day of Monday, December 15, 2014, coinciding with Monday, December 15, 2003, a span of eleven years past, I distinctly recollect the events of that particular day. As we commemorate the 60th Birth Anniversary of our revered fourth king, I wish to offer the ensuing recollection as a tribute to our nation.

The day marking the culmination of my Class X BCSE exam at Sarpang Higher Secondary School was December 13, 2003. The weight of year-long academic burdens lifted from the students, and a prevailing sense of relief permeated the air. Echoing throughout were exclamations of "It's finally over!" The following day was dedicated to a farewell party for the departing students of Class X. Excitement radiated from the outgoing students, while teachers and leaders busied themselves with preparations. My friends and I were animated, our exuberance manifesting through spirited movements and shouts that resonated far and wide, celebrating the conclusion of our year-long academic endeavor.

As twilight descended, around 7:30 PM, after partaking in dinner, our dormitory warden entered with an announcement that those hailing from Nganglam were required to depart for home the next morning, preempting the farewell festivities. Although our group complied without hesitation, my friends and I felt a tinge of disappointment at departing prematurely, missing out on the anticipated farewell gathering.

The subsequent morning saw us embarking on a journey via lorry from Gelephu gateway. Positioned at the truck's rear, passengers engaged in varied activities – some admired the passing landscape, some sought rest, others engaged in lively banter, and some, like Mr. Tshering, expressed a sense of dissatisfaction due to being responsible for tending to the school's pigs throughout the year. The larger pig had been reserved for the farewell feast, a fact that weighed heavily on his mind.

Our voyage traversed seven hours through the territories of West Bengal and Assam in India, ultimately reaching the border gate of Nganglam. The atmosphere exuded a sense of serenity and calm. Despite apprehensions about encountering elephants along the way, as well as concerns about ULFA and BODO insurgencies, we undertook the two-and-a-half-hour trek back to Dechheling, our hometown.

Around 9:30 PM, we arrived in Bapta, our village, where we bid our friends farewell, dispersing to our respective homesteads. My journey concluded by 10 o'clock, and upon reaching home, I found my stepmother engrossed in chanting mantras (Om mani padme hum ri). A shared meal, already consumed by her and specially accompanied by the ara (local wine) she had prepared for her son and me, ensued. Our conversation meandered through various topics, and eventually, the day drew to a close as we settled down for sleep.

Dawn of the next day, December 15, 2003, ushered in the customary activities of our village. With the crowing of roosters, daily life resumed its rhythm. Villagers busied themselves with cooking and preparing oranges to trade in Nganglam. During winter, a significant portion of the village's population would venture down for trade, leaving the village somewhat deserted by morning.

On this fateful morning, around 10 o'clock, my brother's father-in-law paid me a visit. We engaged in relaxed conversation while partaking in the locally crafted bangchang (wine). Suddenly, the tranquil air was pierced by the sound of gunshots emanating from the ulpha and bodo base camp, located 5 to 10 kilometers from our village. Apprehension gripped us as we speculated about potential harm to our fellow villagers on their trade route. A tense silence enveloped us, shattered only by the escalating cacophony of gunfire and explosions. The students from the nearby Non-Formal Education (NFE) center, who were engaged in an exam on the football ground, scattered in all directions, seeking refuge in their homes. A neighboring girl rushed to us, her face etched with fear, proclaiming the outbreak of war and questioning where to seek safety. I reassured her while struggling with my own concerns.

In response to the unfolding chaos, the villagers began migrating en masse to a designated area designated by the village leader, carrying with them their possessions and horses. The bizarre sight of villagers hauling heavy loads alongside their horses during this tumultuous flight left an indelible mark. Amid the escalating sounds of violence, my stepmother, father-in-law, and cousin brother chose to remain behind, while I watched, powerless to sway their decision.

The scene continued to unravel – a cloud of smoke emerged from the terrorist camp on the opposing hillside, compounding our distress. We remained immobilized, our hearts heavy with worry for the traders en route to Nganglam. After a while, some of the villagers returned, bearing harrowing accounts of their ordeal. As they approached Kangrizee, the hill that separated our village from Nganglam and the location of the terrorist camps, they encountered a deafening explosion, followed by a barrage of bullets. This traumatic encounter severed the line of horses from the procession of people. Some villagers retreated, while others pressed onward, leaving behind their laden horses and embracing the perilous flight for survival.

The unsettling sight of fighter jets overhead further intensified my anxiety. Among those who returned from the Kangrizee incident, families could be reunited. Tragically, families proceeding beyond Kangrizee toward Nganglam experienced the loss of parents and, in some cases, infants as well. It fell to us to care for the infants, feeding them cow's milk for a week. Those who were unable to cross Kangrizee were accommodated in Nganglam, provided with shelter and sustenance until they were eventually released to return home after a week.

The day following this episode, a local official encountered a group of terrorists – men, women, and even babies – traversing towards our village with guns and explosives. Swiftly relaying this information to the armed forces, a confrontation ensued. Our soldiers acted with determination and precision, managing to apprehend the intruders. Subsequent investigations yielded a cache of guns, bombs, and a significant sum of currency. The captured terrorists were duly transferred to Indian authorities along with their belongings and funds.

In the days that followed, another incident transpired in the neighboring village of Kulamanti, involving three more armed men. Our armed forces were swiftly dispatched, resulting in a confrontation that concluded with the elimination of the intruders. These occurrences compelled us to remain indoors after 4 o'clock for two weeks, as our village became a fortress of sorts, guarded by the Royal Bhutan Army.

Amid the turmoil, a group of laymen were arrested for unlawfully removing bones from buried bodies, intending to craft trumpets. While the nation grappled with adversity, these actions were deemed an affront to the law, leading to their imprisonment. The deceased were cremated in accordance with legal mandates.

Gradually, life regained its semblance of normalcy. The peace that ensued was a testament to the valor of our armed forces and the dedicated volunteers who safeguarded our nation. To Cheyi Chari Ngang, our beacon of happiness and joy, we offer our tears of gratitude. Your heroic spirit shall forever reside within our hearts, guiding and inspiring us. Pelden Drukpa Gyelo – may the protective deities guard our beloved nation.

Friday, November 28, 2014

Memory from Bajothang HSS

The commemoration held on the 8th of November, 2014, at Bajothang Higher Secondary School, stands as an indelible milestone within the annals of my personal history. Following my scholastic triumph and subsequent graduation, my inaugural employment post-college materialized at Bajothang Higher Secondary School. Over and above the vocation of imparting education, I conscientiously shouldered a spectrum of diverse roles and responsibilities.

Each facet of these multifarious duties proved to be not only gratifying but also profoundly edifying. The present juncture, however, warrants singular attention, as the accolade accorded to me takes its exclusive attribution from the dedication and aptitude exhibited by the members of the Bumpa house during the year 2014. Their unwavering diligence and exceptional competencies have rendered them deserving recipients of this esteemed recognition.

This event embodies a convergence of significance, wherein my personal journey converges with the collective accomplishments of those under the aegis of the Bumpa house. The ceremony served as a testament to the seamless interweaving of individual triumphs and collaborative feats. This award resonates as a tribute not only to my efforts but to the synergy fostered by the cohort I had the privilege to mentor and guide.

In the grand tapestry of life experiences, this occasion has woven an intricate thread, forever uniting me with the temporal tapestry of the Bajothang Higher Secondary School's history. As time unfurls, this juncture will continue to evoke a profound sense of fulfillment, underscoring the symphony of dedication, learning, and shared accomplishment that reverberated through the corridors of education on that hallowed day in November.

Monday, November 03, 2014

Envoy (KANG-THUNG-PA in Tshangla kha)

The forgotten customs that thrived in the era before the advent of telephones and mobile services in my village are a testament to a bygone culture. In those days, whenever a family member passed away, the news had to be conveyed to relatives through the efforts of one or two individuals. In cases where the head of the family, such as a father or mother, had kin scattered across various corners of the world, it was imperative to dispatch envoys known as "KANG-THUNG-PA" to deliver this somber news. These envoys would undertake journeys spanning three to four days on foot to ensure the message reached all concerned parties.

However, if the relatives lived in distant lands, the news might go unnoticed, only coming to light years later. The absence of an envoy following a person's demise led to verbal disputes known as "heta yang mey," where the surviving family members would need to seek forgiveness, or "Shakpa," by offering a monetary recompense to the deceased person's relatives. This cultural practice held significant importance in that era, as it cemented the bonds between relatives and prevented them from faltering in times of need.

The role of an envoy could be discerned by a specific indicator: a kabney, a male Bhutanese tie, discreetly tucked within the KHANANG, a pocket formed by the traditional male Bhutanese dress known as "gho," with its fringes extending outward. If one encountered an individual with this distinctive appearance, it was a clear sign that someone had passed away, and the person was embarking on a journey as an envoy.

Despite the strides made by technological advancements in enhancing people's lives, it's important to acknowledge that we've relinquished remarkable narratives from the past. Recently, I had the privilege of transcribing the ancestral anecdotes shared by my father-in-law as we leisurely sipped on ara, a local wine. I'm indebted to him for imparting this heritage, and I eagerly anticipate further revelations to share with the visitors of my blog.

Saturday, November 01, 2014

A method for speaking test IELTS


If anyone is aspiring to prepare for IELTS speaking test, this is the mock speaking test video and it helps a lot. Please refer to this video if you ever want to appear IELTS exam anywhere at any time. I had been practicing mock test with this video and certainly I could appear my speaking test that was rewarding too. Likewise I did practice same for my listening test and reading test which are there freely available in you-tube.

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Preparation for IELTS

October has proven to be the most demanding month this year. The ongoing trial exams coupled with the daunting prospect of the upcoming IELTS examination on November 1st have made it particularly taxing.
Undertaking preparations for the IELTS exam is far from straightforward. Despite my continuous efforts in preparation thus far, I am still grappling with its challenges, causing a persistent sense of concern.
The four components of the listening test resemble the complexities of driving, demanding the concurrent utilization of distinct skills: listening, analysis, and writing.
Similarly, the three segments of the reading passage equate to a 100-meter race, necessitating rapid skimming of the content to effectively address 40 questions within a strict 60-minute timeframe.
The writing section, encompassing two essays to be completed within 60 minutes, along with the speaking component spanning three sections and lasting around 14 to 15 minutes, further compound the rigorous nature of the examination.
While I do regret not having had ample time for thorough preparation, circumstances have led to a last-minute rush. I can only hope for favorable luck and seek blessings from a higher power. Nevertheless, I am committed to giving my utmost effort, trusting that certain aspects will naturally fall into place.

 
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